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Muldoon90 33M
76 posts
8/2/2024 2:00 pm
Effective ways to open up with strangers.


Being a member of this particular website, I knew that 90% or more would be a "stranger". I assume, their purpose is to bring opportunities to those who join, ways and formats to assist us in bringing down barriers so we no longer are.

Creating blogs is one way to introduce yourself to others, who are
definitely "strangers". Stepping out, opening yourself to others, is a scary task. But, for many, it is the opposite. A feeling of jumping into a ripple free swimming pool, creating a tidal wave event, by saying HELLO EVERYBODY, with no fear of the after affects. It boils down to the original question, effective ways to "open up" to strangers. Better put, meeting the "new "guy" or "gal".

Obviously this is my first attempt here. Exploring the myriad of forums available and how they were used, my conclusion is pretty much ingrained. It can also be wrong.

Share with me, your effective way that successfully reverses stranger to one of sharing.

I look forward to the interest of this in any direction it serves.

Remember it's a 1st, a day ending in y, and officially the middle of Summer!

🌞Muldoon90🌞

Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/3/2024 1:39 pm

Thanks for visiting Roberto!


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/3/2024 1:42 pm

Krboy from South Korea, I am sending you a hello!


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/3/2024 1:43 pm

Those who have messaged me, I appreciate the courtesy.


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
8/4/2024 3:08 pm

Hard to turn down an invitation like this. I am saying hello 👋 in return.
I plan to expand with a photo soon.
Stay happy!😊


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/4/2024 4:55 pm

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    Hard to turn down an invitation like this. I am saying hello 👋 in return.
    I plan to expand with a photo soon.
    Stay happy!😊
Thanks for the comment.😉


roberto10313 64M
14 posts
8/5/2024 8:13 am

Hi, my friend!
You look good


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
8/5/2024 6:22 pm

    Quoting Muldoon90:
    Thanks for the comment.😉
Surely, Muldoon. Is that your name?🤷‍♂️


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/6/2024 6:26 am

Thanks Roberto!🙋‍♂️


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/7/2024 8:03 am

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    Surely, Muldoon. Is that your name?🤷‍♂️
No. It is the name of my county of birth. My name is Chad.
Thanks for the interest!


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
8/8/2024 9:44 am

    Quoting Muldoon90:
    No. It is the name of my county of birth. My name is Chad.
    Thanks for the interest!
Hi Chad. I finally uploaded a pic. It was taken after a day playing on the beach. My sunburn won't be forgotten anytime soon.
Made my day responding.


SalvoAvonBuxton 31M
2698 posts
8/8/2024 4:05 pm

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    Hard to turn down an invitation like this. I am saying hello 👋 in return.
    I plan to expand with a photo soon.
    Stay happy!😊
Got to get your name. As for your comment. 💯 agree.
Sal


SalvoAvonBuxton 31M
2698 posts
8/8/2024 4:18 pm

I had no intention of coming here until you texted me. Thankfully I had a file with all the access info. This was a fun place years ago. Fond memories of many people. Also can say the majority are doing great, too !!
Jason and myself may publish a memory board. It's not good for time passing too much.
Ok. We have decks to clean up before the sun begins drying things out tomorrow.
Layer all!
Sal and Jason


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/9/2024 3:55 pm

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    I had no intention of coming here until you texted me. Thankfully I had a file with all the access info. This was a fun place years ago. Fond memories of many people. Also can say the majority are doing great, too !!
    Jason and myself may publish a memory board. It's not good for time passing too much.
    Ok. We have decks to clean up before the sun begins drying things out tomorrow.
    Layer all!
    Sal and Jason
Thanks for dropping by Salvo. This is a low keyed atmosphere.
Hug Jason for me!
Chad❤️


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
8/10/2024 7:26 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    I had no intention of coming here until you texted me. Thankfully I had a file with all the access info. This was a fun place years ago. Fond memories of many people. Also can say the majority are doing great, too !!
    Jason and myself may publish a memory board. It's not good for time passing too much.
    Ok. We have decks to clean up before the sun begins drying things out tomorrow.
    Layer all!
    Sal and Jason
A spam notification sparked my attention. It took several attempts to finally get here. This place is gone.
Chad, all I can say is good luck.


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
8/15/2024 9:00 am

Test


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/15/2024 5:17 pm

It works!😂


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/28/2024 8:44 am

    Quoting JKTeoli:
    A spam notification sparked my attention. It took several attempts to finally get here. This place is gone.
    Chad, all I can say is good luck.
Thanks JKTeoli


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/28/2024 8:46 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    I had no intention of coming here until you texted me. Thankfully I had a file with all the access info. This was a fun place years ago. Fond memories of many people. Also can say the majority are doing great, too !!
    Jason and myself may publish a memory board. It's not good for time passing too much.
    Ok. We have decks to clean up before the sun begins drying things out tomorrow.
    Layer all!
    Sal and Jason
Who is Jason?


Diamond_Lil 44M

8/28/2024 8:48 am

Grate blog doon


Diamond_Lil 44M

8/28/2024 8:50 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    Got to get your name. As for your comment. 💯 agree.
    Sal
My name is Diamond, like silk👸


Diamond_Lil 44M

8/28/2024 8:51 am

Jason is Jason! Duh!😂😂😂


Diamond_Lil 44M

8/28/2024 8:54 am

Building my empire. First blog coming soon!


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/28/2024 9:01 am

Thanks Lil❤️


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/28/2024 9:02 am

Lolololol🤣😂🤣😂


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
8/28/2024 9:03 am

    Quoting Diamond_Lil:
    Building my empire. First blog coming soon!
Will be watching Lil👀


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/3/2024 9:30 am

Physical attractiveness is both an alure and only one of many assets an individual possesses. Judgement as to whether one chooses to be interested in another encompases so much more. Strange as it may sound, some folks who are naturally attractive physically, conciously choose to alter their appearance so as to engage with others on deeper levels which they value more than the physical plane. The converse can also be true.We all must develope our own standards within our life's learning process.Beware of the unexpected surprises, life challenges each individuals preconceived notions. Then the phrase quot; Love is Blind " makes more sense to the outsider of a relationship. May a true, and evolving love strengthen each of our relationship experiences. Take care .


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/5/2024 7:11 am

Popular way?


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/5/2024 7:12 am

Worst way


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/5/2024 7:12 am

My way


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/5/2024 7:13 am

Awe forget it


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/7/2024 2:53 pm

The best way! Don't anx period. Lay back and enjoy the physical worship.

[PS right Crisco!


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/7/2024 2:56 pm

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    The best way! Don't anx period. Lay back and enjoy the physical worship.

    [PS right Crisco!
Fat in the can!


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:10 am

Some have outed themselves


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:11 am

Galveston Island Historic Pleasure Pier


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:12 am

Thanks sweetie! I love my Norwegian man, too...
Can't keep a good woman down.


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:12 am

MyPar is about friends, but also about love. I've seen friendships in MyPar turn into loving relationships. And if this is what you want to do, then go for it. Being a yenta is a great thing to do. Sometimes guys just sit there talking to each other and don't realize that they are talking with someone that is perfect for them.
Report this for abuse


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:15 am

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    Physical attractiveness is both an alure and only one of many assets an individual possesses. Judgement as to whether one chooses to be interested in another encompases so much more. Strange as it may sound, some folks who are naturally attractive physically, conciously choose to alter their appearance so as to engage with others on deeper levels which they value more than the physical plane. The converse can also be true.We all must develope our own standards within our life's learning process.Beware of the unexpected surprises, life challenges each individuals preconceived notions. Then the phrase quot; Love is Blind " makes more sense to the outsider of a relationship. May a true, and evolving love strengthen each of our relationship experiences. Take care .
True


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:18 am

Andrea Denver
Italian model
Images
Web Search
Andrea Salerno, known professionally as Andrea Denver, is an Italian fashion model based in Ne...
Official SiteWikipediaFacebookInstagram


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:20 am

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    Some have outed themselves
Why?


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:21 am

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    Galveston Island Historic Pleasure Pier
Awesome place


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:21 am

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    Thanks sweetie! I love my Norwegian man, too...
    Can't keep a good woman down.
Thanks Bud


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:22 am

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    MyPar is about friends, but also about love. I've seen friendships in MyPar turn into loving relationships. And if this is what you want to do, then go for it. Being a yenta is a great thing to do. Sometimes guys just sit there talking to each other and don't realize that they are talking with someone that is perfect for them.
    Report this for abuse
Op group?


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/8/2024 8:31 am


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/8/2024 8:35 am

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    Andrea Denver
    Italian model
    Images
    Web Search
    Andrea Salerno, known professionally as Andrea Denver, is an Italian fashion model based in Ne...
    Official SiteWikipediaFacebookInstagram
Incredible!


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 10:27 am

Albie Aldahawi
Internet personality


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 10:30 am

Andrea Denver
Italian model
Images

Andrea Salerno, known professionally as Andrea Denver, is an Italian fashion model


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 10:31 am

Sends in platoons of bazooka and flamethrowers!! Light it up! Put Patoosie on the front lines. Lead flamethrower! Open her mouth and the botox and liquor combo will torch all their illegal butt's, including 85 year old Patiosies sagging threescore!
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/8/2024 10:32 am

YES THE BATTLE HAS BEEN WON AND NOW TO KEEP IT THAT WEIGHT..


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
9/9/2024 10:02 pm

    Quoting Laconia95:
    YES THE BATTLE HAS BEEN WON AND NOW TO KEEP IT THAT WEIGHT..
Indeed


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/9/2024 10:05 pm

Indeed!!


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/10/2024 3:52 pm

A day that ends with a Y!


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
9/10/2024 3:58 pm

Tuesday is one.


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
9/10/2024 3:58 pm

Of course Monday!


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
9/10/2024 3:59 pm

Tomorrow is Wednesday with a y!


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
9/10/2024 4:01 pm

Followed by ThusdaY


JKTeoli 32M
64 posts
9/10/2024 4:04 pm

! Then ! TGIFriday!


Laconia95 29M
59 posts
9/10/2024 4:10 pm

    Quoting JKTeoli:
    ! Then ! TGIFriday!
Which brings in those weekend days of Saturday and Sunday!


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/11/2024 3:15 pm

    Quoting JKTeoli:
    Followed by ThusdaY
Which is tomorrow


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/11/2024 3:17 pm

    Quoting JKTeoli:
    ! Then ! TGIFriday!
Which is day after tomorrow


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/11/2024 3:19 pm

    Quoting Laconia95:
    Which brings in those weekend days of Saturday and Sunday!

HooooooooooRaaaaaaaay!!!!


SalvoAvonBuxton 31M
2698 posts
9/12/2024 2:17 pm

    Quoting An_Enigma:
    The best way! Don't anx period. Lay back and enjoy the physical worship.

    [PS right Crisco!
That image is amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;


SalvoAvonBuxton 31M
2698 posts
9/12/2024 2:25 pm

    Quoting JKTeoli:
    ! Then ! TGIFriday!
Indeed! Jason and I are double prepping for the remainder of storm season. 9 more weeks could bring havic!

All you guys have a great weekend!


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
9/15/2024 10:20 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    Indeed! Jason and I are double prepping for the remainder of storm season. 9 more weeks could bring havic!

    All you guys have a great weekend!
Secure it well men! OBX is an important line of defence for all of the Carolinas!


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/15/2024 10:35 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    Indeed! Jason and I are double prepping for the remainder of storm season. 9 more weeks could bring havic!

    All you guys have a great weekend!
Defend it well. You are an important sentinel for the extremely important ecosystem of Pamlico Sound!


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/15/2024 10:44 am

    Quoting Muldoon90:
    Secure it well men! OBX is an important line of defence for all of the Carolinas!
You are sooooo correct Chad! The entire North Carolina bayside onshore coast is dangerous for ALL LIFE when affected by tidal surges from tropical systems.

[image]

I love the detailed mapping here, along with the data tables presented for possible storm surge damaging effects to all of the onshore geography of North Carolina.


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/15/2024 11:05 am

Many of the dune barriers are 20 + feet high. Access to the beaches are walking trails with environmentally friendly stair walks elevated above the dunes so not to disturb their integrity. The natural process requires decades to rebuild if high levels of damage occur due to a storm. Not only onshore winds, along with possible tide surges, but on the bayside when the elevated tides are pushed back out to sea.
[image]


An_Enigma 34M  
140 posts
9/15/2024 11:11 am

If that above barrier dune could tell its stories. Access to vehicles on the beaches is controlled. Selected parts of the barrier wall are selected and maintained for such activity.
[image]


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/16/2024 11:39 am

    Quoting SalvoAvonBuxton:
    Indeed! Jason and I are double prepping for the remainder of storm season. 9 more weeks could bring havic!

    All you guys have a great weekend!
Did you meet those goals?


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/16/2024 11:42 am

    Quoting Muldoon90:
    Secure it well men! OBX is an important line of defence for all of the Carolinas!
Indeed it is. The geography of,the OBX is beyond incredible!


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/16/2024 11:45 am

The natural formed dunes, 25 plus feet in height are a marvel to explore. Those pictures posted by Teddy do not do them justice.


Stud_Bud 24M
59 posts
9/16/2024 11:51 am

If any plan to visit the OBX, one must take the tour exploring their history, importance, and their most of all, their own majesty( not man made).


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
9/17/2024 9:52 pm

As always, thank you for your posts! Between the humorous jabs, illustrations, and intellect, I learn tons!!


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
9/17/2024 9:56 pm

    Quoting Stud_Bud:
    The natural formed dunes, 25 plus feet in height are a marvel to explore. Those pictures posted by Teddy do not do them justice.
That is an understatement Bud.


Muldoon90 33M
37 posts
9/17/2024 9:58 pm

A million thanks for those maps and pics Enigma!


Avon95 29M
18 posts
9/18/2024 11:35 am

Howdy boys. My name is Richard. I DO NOT USE Dick as a nickname. Do not tread there. Thank you! I am referred as Rick when comfortable.
Fairly new user of this old site. The processing of approval was crazy, due to the outdated protocol. Interested future members must want the title in a monumental way. My opinion anyway.
Introduction done, time to move along.
Best to all peers!
Rick


Avon95 29M
18 posts
9/18/2024 11:40 am

Wow!
After a quick glance of contributors and comments, this is definitely an interesting, sounds exciting, group of contributors.